Roses Notes is a special area of our website where Rose has prepared tips and dating secrets to help you find Your Perfect partner.
There are also two special private sections for Women and also for Men. To obtain a password for these areas, contact Rose.
How to get the most out of the program.
If you are new to the singles scene, or simply looking to enlarge your social circle, you can get instant dates, or make many like-minded friends through our services. You can get up-to-date information about what different people look for in today’s singles market; improve your dating skills or enrich your experience through our services; or get familiarised with the opposite sex. Then you may meet your perfect partner in the most unexpected ways. Life is magic, one thing triggers the other! You just have to get out there and try!
We provide dating tips, relationship counselling, fitness advice and suggestions for personal development - for your all round well-being. Life’s magic again: Once you become happier and more confident you are naturally more attractive, your perfect partner comes to you without you looking!
We hold social functions to help our clients to meet more people in a relaxed atmosphere. At the functions, in addition to members from our list, you can meet friends and associates of our members as well as people from other social networks. Our functions are organised according to your age group and other preferences - with the aim of helping you meet potentially compatible people. It is highly recommended that you attend our functions as much as possible to use our programs to the maximum.
You must understand the nature of dating through this service. Unlike purchasing a finished product, when everyone gets the same product for the same price, in our service you are to be assessed by another person while you are choosing him or her. What you are getting is the opportunity to meet potential partners or friends. Who you are and what kind of effort you make forms 50% of the success.
Telephone conversations or photographs do not always give an accurate impression of most people; especially as most of us may feel nervous or shy in the beginning. Most males are not comfortable having phone conversation especially with someone they haven’t met. Try to avoid talking a lot on the phone before initial meetings.
Initial physical attraction is important, however it is not an essential element for maintaining a long-term successful relationship. Many happily married couples were actually not physically attracted when they first met. The attraction which comes out after you know the person is realistically more reliable. Don’t allow a false impression to dampen the start of a very successful relationship. We suggest meeting each twice or three times at least, before making a judgment about whether to carry on.
We do not give out clients’ last names or addresses; you can exchange these at anytime with your contact.
Your need each other’s phone number – you may need to change meeting arrangements. Bring your mobile phone when you go for the meeting, and make sure it has been charged and SWITCHED ON, so you can contact each other in an unexpected situation. e.g. You are running late or the car breaks down.
Make sure arrangements are clear – there could be a big crowd around. And be decent enough to attend the meeting. (Go to the next page)
Arrange the first meeting for a short duration e.g. coffee, stroll, brunch or lunch etc to see how it goes.
On no account should you ever retreat from a meeting before making contact. This is particularly demeaning and you wouldn’t appreciate the same happening to you.
The following topics of conversation can be a real “turn off”:
Problems or negative criticism (e.g. work, friends, etc).
Past relationships, divorce settlements and custody disputes.
Dealings with the agency or previous contacts with other clients.
Any topics, which can cause negative impressions about the other person.
During the first meeting choose subjects which involve getting information about the person you meet, so she or he can feel special and in the meantime you can get to know as much as you can about them i.e. their background, friends, experiences, opinions and feelings.
A healthy, enthusiastic attitude will greatly improve the likelihood of success. Even if the sparks do not fly with the person you have been matched with, they may have a lot in common with you & will have friends who may be just what you are looking for, so be positive & make the most of each contact.
It is most important to report back to us your feelings and impressions about your contact. That way we can assess what you really want and make our personalised service much more effective.
You are requested by YPP to communicate, including answering individual emails. Take this as the first step towards enhancing your communication skills and habit, which will be essential for your dating and relationships. YPP is here to assist you. One of the keys to the success of our service is that it is a two-way communication practice with our clients, rather than just selling contact details to them. You are helping us to do a better job for you.
If you don’t feel there's any chance you can pursue the contact any further, try to be diplomatic, and don't hurt the person’s feelings. You can say: “I shall contact you later”, then contact our consultant, so we can do the job for you. If you would like to let the other person know you are not interested, it is better to tell the truth: “It has been really nice meeting you, but I don’t feel we are quite compatible.” Never make up reasons such as “I have a boyfriend (girlfriend)” or “ I am not ready for a relationship” or “I am too busy”. These comments can only have a negative effect on the person you meet and also create a negative image for our service.
Establish a realistic mind-set when meet a new person – I am going to meet a new friend, no more than that. Let things go naturally. This way you won’t have bad feelings about rejections. Understand that rejection is normal and nothing personal, because the purpose of dating through YPP is to find a suitable partner, not a competition or test of your ability to conquer or impress. You will be the one who rejects in some stage as well; you only need one person in the end. When this one doesn’t work out with you, which means he or she is not the right person for you, keep moving on, someone else will be next. It is a matter of time and practice. Having said that, it is also important not to make a rushed decision to reject. (Refer to item 5 above)
We assume that you do not require another contact unless you phone and request one. (Ring 10am – 5pm, Monday – Friday, 10am – 4pm Saturday or after hours if you need: 0411 768 636)
